Mutual refund — the friendly option
If you and the other party can both agree to cancel, use mutual refund first. It’s faster, cheaper, and doesn’t affect either trust score.
How it works
- Either party opens the deal page and clicks “Request mutual refund”
- Optional: write a reason (“project scope changed”, “can’t deliver on time”, etc.)
- The other party gets 48 hours to accept or decline
- If accepted: full refund via Stripe (including the Holdy fee). Deal closes
- If declined: request closes. Requester can still open a formal dispute if needed
- If no response in 48h: request auto-expires
When to use it
- You changed your mind about the deal
- Scope or requirements changed beyond what was agreed
- Seller realized they can’t deliver on time
- Both parties just want out amicably
If the other party isn’t cooperative or delivery actually failed, move on to a formal dispute.
The dispute review process
A dispute goes through a structured process:
- Opened — buyer files the dispute. Funds are locked. Seller gets an email + notification
- Seller response window (48h) — seller provides their side + evidence. If they don’t respond, the dispute auto-escalates
- Holdy review — we read the chat log, check the delivery hash, compare to deliverables, weigh evidence from both sides
- Decision issued — we send a decision with a written reasoning to both parties
- Execution — refund processed via Stripe or funds released to seller, depending on outcome
Typical dispute takes 3–7 business days from opening to resolution. Complex disputes with lots of evidence can take longer.
What we look at
- The agreed deliverables list (most important)
- Delivery proof on the platform (hash + timestamp)
- Chat history between buyer and seller
- Evidence files submitted by both sides
- Timeline of events in the activity log
Possible outcomes
Buyer wins
Full refund including the Holdy fee. Processed via Stripe, typically lands in 5–10 business days. The dispute appears on the seller’s trust history.
Seller wins
Funds released to the seller. Deal marked completed. The dispute is recorded but doesn’t count against the seller. The buyer’s trust history reflects a lost dispute.
Mutual resolution
When both sides have legitimate points, Holdy may issue a mutual refund. Full refund to the buyer; no trust impact on either party. Usually happens when there’s genuine miscommunication rather than fault.
Can I appeal?
Dispute decisions are not legally binding — you retain the right to take the matter to a Dutch court (Art. 16.2 of our ToS). In practice this almost never happens because the amounts involved and the documented trail make court cases impractical.
Disputing a specific deal?
Log in and open the deal page to start. We’ll guide you through.
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